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The 3 Biggest Things Draining Your Wallet - Do This EVERY Time You Get Paid

financial wellness Jul 11, 2025

Payday should be a blessing, not a curse. But for many, the moment that paycheck hits the account, it disappears just as quickly. 

Why? 

Because we’ve been conditioned to spend first… and think later. But if you’re serious about building real wealth, creating breathing room, and honoring God with your finances, there are 3 common traps to avoid at all costs. 

Let’s dive into what you should NOT be spending your paycheck on—and what to do instead. 

❌ 1. Your Lifestyle 

“I work hard—I deserve this!” 
Sound familiar? That “I earned it” mindset fuels impulse purchases, excessive dining out, fast fashion, and overspending on entertainment. 

    👉 Instead: 
Create a “fun money” budget category after giving, saving, and covering your essentials. Lifestyle upgrades should be planned, not reactive. 

❌ 2. A House You Can’t Afford 

It’s not just the mortgage—it’s the insurance, taxes, repairs, furnishings, and never-ending upgrades. Budget wisely and buy or rent within your means. Maybe is time to downsize? That’s ok too! If you own a home that you can’t afford, guess what? You can tent it and make it an income stream.  

    👉 Instead: 
Before you increase your rent or mortgage, ask: Will this help me build savings or create more stress? 

❌ 3. A Car That Owns You 

Many people spend more on their car payment, gas, and insurance than on their grocery bill. And for what? A vehicle that depreciates daily and whose value decreases! 

    👉 Instead: 
Buy a reliable, used car that gets the job done. A paid-off car is much better than a brand-new one when you're debt-free and peaceful. 

Here's What to Do Every Payday: 

  1. Tithe first. Honor God with your first fruits. 
  2. Save something. Build your emergency fund & future. 
  3. Cash out at least some categories. Divide the rest into clear spending buckets: housing, food, transportation, fun, etc. 
  4. Audit your expenses. Ask yourself: Does this add value or subtract freedom? 
  5. Stick to the plan. Freedom is built by consistency, not convenience. 

Every paycheck is a spiritual and financial opportunity. Don’t waste it on image, ego, or impulse. Steward it with purpose. 

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Let’s build wealth God’s way—one paycheck at a time. ABLE Family

 

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